Bad move! How would you feel if this happened to you? Intimidation is not the same as outplaying an opponent. 

Good move! 

What would you say to Malik if you were Hasan?

Model statements

● Hey man, I’m sorry. I got a little carried away there (help him up)
● I’m sorry about that. Can I grab you some ice?

Bad move! If no one holds Hasan accountable, his behaviour will likely continue. Others could also get hurt, and Hasan may not have the opportunity to understand how his actions are harmful.

Bad move! This could cause the situation to escalate. It won’t help Hasan understand the impact of his actions. In fact, it might embolden him.

Good move! A direct, but respectful comment can help Hasan to see how his behaviour impacts others. However, you should only choose this move if you feel safe to do so.

What would you say to Hasan if you were Malik?

Model statements:

● You’re playing way too rough. Can you ease up?
● People will keep getting hurt if you play like that

Good move! You can have your teammates ask Hasan to stop playing that way. If that doesn’t work, you could seek help from a trusted adult. Remember – Reporting is NOT the same as ratting or snitching.

What would you say to your teammates if you were Malik?

Model statements:

● Others will get hurt if this keeps happening. Can you say something to him?
● He will keep playing this way unless we ask him to stop

Bad move! Revenge won’t fix the problem. In fact, it could make the situation worse. This response also implies that it’s okay to victimize others.

Good move! You can ask him to sit with you, call his parents, walk him home, etc.

What would you say to Malik?

Good move! A direct, but respectful comment can help Hasan to see how his behaviour impacts others. However, you should only choose this move if you feel safe to do so.

What would you say to Hasan?

Model statements:

● Dude, you’re playing way too rough. Can you ease up?
● People will keep getting hurt if you play like that

Good move! If you can’t get Hasan to stop on your own, it is important to report the situation to a trusted adult

What would you say to the adult if you were in this situation?

Model statements:

● We’re having a problem at the pond and we could use some help (describe situation)
● (Describe situation) I’m not sure what to do about this. Can you help us out?